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lets do this... lesbians, butch, fem, pumps, pants...etc... the topic how do you feel about homosexuality. i myself i have a girlfriend, her name is Af. we have been together for about a year and 2 weeks. i am very open about our relationship and am not afraid of what anyone thinks. at first i was nervous about my friends and family, but this is my life to live and not theirs, and i have been thankful to be blessed with fam and friends who do love me despite what they "expected" or "preferred" me to be with... but i love her and yeahh
lately, i have been getting questions like "who is the man in the relationship" or "what's your type; do you like butches or what" or even "why do dykes want to be guys"... *sigh* at first i used to get mad, but i had to realize that these people are asking for a reason; because they do not know...well let me answer them
Q.who is the man? A. there isn't one. we are both females and i wouldn't have it any other way. if my girlfriend had a...shwang...i would not be with her sadly. if you want to know who is the more dominant one...you cannot base it merely off of what we wear. our personalities mesh so well together that dominance isn't a part of our relationship
Q. what's your type? A. I don't have one...if we click we click...period. right now ...im taken :p
Q. why do dykes want to be guys? A. news flash... if they wanted to be guys they would be planning to have surgery and get a sex operation and so on and so forth. just because they wear baggy jeans, and a fitted doesn't make them "want to be a guy" its just how they dress... that's like saying all tom-girls want to be not only gay but guys too... no. they are just females who dress in what makes them more comfortable...you really must know the person honestly. just recently i had a discussion with my gf about the difference between a lesbian and a dyke and we agree that there is a HUGE difference. online if you type in lesbian, and moderation is on...which i hope it stays on, you will typically get "pretty" lesbians alot of feminine lesbians... try typing in dyke... the internet has made the image of "dyke" an insult to a lesbian with masculine facial features...the internet has also shaped society's overall image of what a lesbian should and should not be...positive sites such as www.curvemag.com and logo provide a more realistic view of lesbians...but hey what do you think ???
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Well I for one don't have an issue with lesbians, but I do feel some kind of way about the "butch" ones. (forgive me if I am using the wrong terminology) I don't like it when I see one and approach them under the false pretenses that it is a male, only to later discover that it is a female. smh, but to each his own!!
I like the fact that you are open about yourself and that you do not care what anyone thinks.
i don't think it is my place to tell some one who to be with that is between that person and GOD.
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